Woohooo...so dates are semi-confirmed for Syida's wedding! Well they've set the month, but dates are still being tossed around, but whatever it is, there will be a merisik and bertunang this year, and wedding next year...that means the wedding planning can officially start!
I am currently quite occupied with office work, starting at a new place, in a new area would require me to put in extra hours to solidify my presence and build trust with the boss...so, I am still in the phase of trying to prove my worthiness, and although my biggest critic is me, and I am constantly dissapointing myself, I will not let that get in the way of getting back into the bridezilla me! Though I don't think it has ever left me..:)
Syida is more focused on the designs of the dresses right now. But I think, we need to take one thing at a time, and focus on the merisik first, which I was told by the bride-to-be will be in March. So right now I have to come up with a design for Syida's merisik baju kurung...OMG, lagi mengada kan? Merisik pun nak kena ada design?
Anyway, Ibu is panicking looking for a place to have the reception. That would depend on whether they will have the large number of guests like mine or are they willing to cut down on the guest list - which I don't think will happen, so we will need to find a big hall again. Dewan Sri Endon where I had mine is in the list, there were no problems with them when I had mine there, and it's a really nice hall. But Syida wants to try and look at other options as well...so the parents need to decide on the size of the wedding ASAP so we can get the hall hunting started.
Right now, I think the color schemes has been agreed on and the themes semi-confirmed. As far as vendors are concerned, from my wedding experience, I know now who to AVOID, and who to BOOK immediately. I have a few vendors in mind that I would love to take again. But, it will depend on Syida, although I have been given a "power of attorney" to make pretty much all the decisions...well actually in Syida's words - "You do everything, all I want are a few options and power to veto". So bossy right.
Anyway, i'm so E.X.C.I.T.E.D. Can you tell?
As Cher and Dee in Clueless (like one of the best movie ever) would say, "PROJECT!".
Toodle doo.